19 October 2009

Pop Culture!

YOUTH LEADER Matt's reaction to X Factor + Dannii Minogue and more...

"Some people are gay. Get over it!". Thus declared the slogan of a T Shirt modelled by Dannii Minogue in a recent high profile campaign by Stonewall, the gay rights organisation. Ms Minogue takes her position as a role model for young people, gay or straight, very seriously. Undoubtedly she is aware that there is an enormous lack of positive role models for young gay people in the British public eye. When Danyl Johnson, a primary school teacher, followed his headline-grabbing X Factor first round audition by unapologetically admitting his bisexuality to a national newspaper, it seemed he could be a prime candidate to fill such a role. As he progressed to the live finals of the show, and was rewarded with the chance of spending every weekend until Christmas performing in front of Britain's biggest television audience, this possibility became ever more likely.
Only one thing stood in his way. It's name was The X Factor, one of the media's prime culprits in projecting an image of a world where homosexuality is at best trivialised and desexualised and more usually simply denied. Dannii Minogue is aware of this and probably deeply frustrated by it. So on Saturday, when Danyl performed a song usually sung by a woman, and changed (whether by request or instruction) the gender references from "man" to "girl", we can imagine how she felt. This was an active move to avoid the unthinkable scenario of a man singing a love song about another man in front of mainstream audience. Dannii clearly saw the measure as plainly ridiculous, and knowing how openly and publicly Danyl had expressed his sexual preferences, chose to playfully question the decision. It backfired.
The accusation that Dannii's remark was homophobic is simply absurd. But many people who understand this are still complaining that she had no right to raise the issue of Danyl's sexuality in public. They say it is irrelevant to his performance, and unfair to bring into the equation. But to everyone who is asking "Why bring his sexuality into it?", I would like to ask them what I believe is the more important question: "Why leave his sexuality out of it?".
Contestants who appear on the X Factor are not only judged on musical ability. We pore over their dress sense, background, age, occupation, home town, and everything in between, in order to decide what we think of them. So do the judges. How ridiculous would it be if the show decided to create the impression that every contestant was 17 years old, because this was deemed to be the optimum age to appeal to voters. Would we sit and watch 34 year old Jamie Archer perform I Will Always Love you in the "Songs from the year of your birth" round, and become outraged if Simon Cowell dared to question the propriety of doing so? After all, Jamie may have admitted his age on the X Factor website, but what about people who only watch the show - they may have no idea that he is - ugh - 34. How embarrassing for him to have this revealed live on national television.
Equally ridiculous scenarios can be imagined with regard to contestants' nationalities, professions. but not sexualities. When it comes to sexuality, all X Factor contestants are portrayed as emphatically heterosexual, asexual at best. Danyl Johnson has never shown any desire to be portrayed as emphatically heterosexual. Danyl Johnson has expressed no embarrassment or anger at Dannii's comment - indeed, his immediately reaction was to declare "I'm not ashamed", before a far more personal attack from Cheryl Cole reduced him to tears. This is what makes him such a prime candidate to be a role model for young gay people across the country. Indeed, this young gay person sees Dannii and Danyl emerging from the whole affair as the same positive role models they always were, or were becoming. It is the reaction from the media and the public, not to mention the show itself, which has let me down.

What do YOU think?? Post comments!!

17 August 2009


THIS POST IS FROM ONE OF OUR FABULOUS YOUTH LEADERS, SOPHIE.

Breakfast and Bowling: Where It All Began.

When I first applied to be a Stonewall Youth Volunteer Leader I had a limited understanding of what it might involve. After being told I was accepted I nervously imagined what would be expected of me, whether I would be able to really help the volunteers with their campaigns, whether the staff at Stonewall would be happy with my contributions. As it happened however I was not the only person uncertain about how the role would evolve, in fact I knew as much as anyone else, because I had been accepted for a brand new position. Myself and Matt, the one other Youth Leader, were pioneers in the field; the first ever people to take the helm as campaign leaders, motivators and Stonewall Guinea pigs.

So, intrepidly we set out on our daunting mission to help forge some politically groundbreaking, homophobia shattering, life changing campaigns; and, naturally, we began with breakfast. Our introduction to the role started on an early morning in February with Volunteer Training, a weekend where all the young volunteers, a handful of Stonewall staff and the two fresh-faced new Youth Leaders gathered to eat croissants and fruit, drink coffee and perform some hilarious attempts at ten-pin bowling. Of course it wasn’t all culinary delights and embarrassing sporting ability; for the most part the weekend involved learning about the Education For All initiative, getting to know Stonewall’s work, sharing campaign ideas and making friends.

The group was small enough for everyone to speak to each other at least once but big enough so that a wide variety of ideas and experiences could be shared. When we began throwing around some ideas for campaigns I was astounded at the breadth of creativity and confidence exhibited by the group. Every idea was different in some way, personal to the volunteers’ individual experience at school, college and in their local towns. Some of the volunteers knew exactly what they wanted to do already, some had vague hopes, a few had already been campaigning at their school and others had barely even thought about it, overall it was the perfect way to breed strong campaign plans: a diverse, welcoming, non-judgemental environment where every idea counts.

For me the Volunteer Training weekend was not only the start of my work as a Youth Leader it was also a pivotal chance to get to know the volunteers who I would be supporting. The Youth Volunteering programme attracts young people from all over the country; therefore I knew that for the most part I would be speaking to the volunteers by phone and email. It was crucial to me that I got a chance to put faces to the voices, and feel as though I knew the young people and their campaigns. After a full weekend of me coming very close to utter bowling failure, exposing my caffeine addiction, getting over excited about cutting and pasting for posters and being obscenely competitive in every team game, I left knowing without doubt that I would look forward to catching up with the volunteers every week, seeing their campaigns materialise from the concrete we had set over those two days.

Since then my relationship with the volunteers has gone from strength to strength. Even without meeting up in person, our regular contact via email and phone has ensured I am kept up to date with their plans. At every stage I have witnessed campaigns blossom, hit seemingly insurmountable stumbling blocks, gain momentum, achieve wide recognition, and thus become instrumental in real social change. In short I have been privileged enough to co-pilot some incredible ideas from the early stages into impressive realisation, and apart from the small aspect of my inability to bowl, I will always look upon the Volunteer Training weekend as where this all began.

2 July 2009

We're Online!


Welcome to the Stonewall Youth Volunteering blog! We're pretty excited to be online and welcome participation!

Want to share stories or pictures from your campaign? Maybe you want to contribute some of your own writing or videos, or discuss some issues that are important to you. This is a space to get creative. We want to hear your ideas about what you would like to see on this blog! Feel free to post them here, or send an email along to Stonewallyouth@stonewall.org.uk to find out more about becoming a regular contributor. Here's a great chance to get interactive and involved!

This blog is for all Stonewall Youth Volunteers - Make it your own!!